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A Couple of Wine Lovers

Storing wine is serious business. A cool, constant temperature, plus darkness and humidity, equals happy bottles of wine. But, as Fred Young knows, creating a wine cellar doesn’t have to be all serious – it can be a lot of fun, too.

When Fred built his West Hempfield Township home 10 years ago with local builder R.W. Zimmerman, he left the basement unfinished. But six months after moving in, he decided to try his hand at creating a fun space for entertaining.

Several years before, he had walked through a house featured on the Parade of Homes tour that showcased a walk-in wine cellar. Even though he wasn’t much of a wine drinker at the time, he kept it in the back of his mind and always dreamed of designing something similar.

His brother-in-law encouraged him to make it unique. As Fred was furnishing his new home, the designers he worked with identified his style – marked by a love of castles and the medieval time period – as “Old World.”

An engineer by trade, Fred drew up plans for a round, fortress-like room, built with the same stone that accents the front of his house. As you enter the basement, stone lines the stairway, and a suit of armor greets you at the basement’s landing. It’s fun and fanciful without being stuffy or too serious.

Fred did most of the work himself, only getting hung up on how to install a flat door on a round room (his home’s builder ended up helping him fabricate it). The door to his wine fortress is heavy, solid wood with a small barred window in the middle that he can open and close. He purchased two such doors online – the other serves as his home’s front door.

He bought two wooden bottle racks, took them apart to see how they were fabricated, and made the rest himself. In total, his cellar holds 240-plus bottles of wine. Two different types of insulation and a built-in humidifier help keep the wine in tip-top shape.

When the cellar was complete, he went to the state store to fill it up. But he quickly realized how much money he’d have to spend to keep his inventory stocked. So he picked up a new hobby – winemaking. He says he would make two batches at a time, with each batch equaling about 30 bottles of wine that only cost $3 per bottle. But as quickly as he filled the cellar, the supply would deplete just as fast, since he generously gave bottles as gifts to friends and family, who very much appreciated his winemaking hobby.

He also jokingly blames his fiancé, Theresa Chilletti. “The cellar was full until I met her,” he quips. When they first started dating, Theresa, a wine enthusiast, was delighted to discover that Fred had a wine cellar, and winemaking quickly became something they enjoyed doing together.

Although they have since taken a hiatus from winemaking, they read off a laundry list of different wines produced at Chateau Young: Amarone, nebbiolo, gewürztraminer, white merlot, shiraz, sangiovese, cabernet and more. Much of the juice was purchased from Rothsville-based Cooper’s Hill Farm.

They gave me a bottle of their homemade gewürztraminer, and I really enjoyed it. It was light, bright and easy to drink. Can’t ask for much more than that!

What I liked most about Fred and Theresa is that they aren’t stuffy, snooty wine-folk. While they have a beautiful, hand-crafted wine cellar reminiscent of a medieval castle in their home, they are as down-to-earth as wine drinkers get. “We’re not connoisseurs or anything like that, and there’s nothing high-end in there,” says Fred. “It’s just average, run-of-the-mill wine.”

But it’s what they like.

There’s almost an entire column (maybe 20 bottles or so) of Apothic red – a California table wine they describe as one of their favorites – some Australian Yellow Tail, and several bottles from Washington State’s Chateau Ste. Michelle. They also like visiting local wineries and aren’t ashamed to reveal that they like some boxed wines, too.

Fred says he’ll never forget a piece of advice from a former neighbor who made his own wine: “He said never to waste money on expensive wines from France,” Fred recalls. “He said some of the best wines come from California.”

Fred and Theresa say they use their wine cellar every day and don’t save wine for special occasions. “People who know us know we rarely leave the house without wine,” Theresa says. “We’ll go kayaking, four-wheeling, on day trips, and we always bring a bottle with us.” (Being not at all outdoorsy, I had never thought about fitting a bottle of wine into a kayak. Turns out, it’s difficult. So, the pair found wine bags online that are malleable and hold an entire bottle of wine.)

And the craftsmanship doesn’t stop at the cellar and the wine. They also love creating wine-themed crafts, including bottle stoppers, painted wine glasses and cork art. Their 2015 Halloween costumes perfectly exhibited their love of wine and the fun they have with it. Theresa dressed up as a bottle of Apothic red that included a beautiful and perfectly detailed bottle label that was hand-embroidered by her mom. Fred dressed as a corkscrew that he created by wrapping a pool noodle in tin foil and spiraling it around his body. He topped it off with a long orthopedic back pillow.

Says Fred, “We just have a lot of fun.”

Tour de Tanks: Sip, Savor & Explore

March 5-6, 12-13 and 19-20, 12-5 p.m.

The 17 members of the Mason-Dixon Wine Trail – Adams, York and Lancaster counties, plus northern Maryland – will once again usher in spring with a tank/barrel-tasting event. Participants will have the opportunity to sample wine, tour the wineries, visit with the winemakers/owners and enjoy lite fare during this educational – and tasty – experience. Commemorative glasses will also be distributed and a 10% discount on wines/spirits at participating locations will be offered. Tickets are $25 (good all three weekends) and can be purchased through yorkpa.org.

Welcome to My Kitchen

Rafe Hottenstein, who is the chef at The Greenfield Restaurant & Bar, knew just what he wanted in a kitchen: a sleek and modern design that cooks!

Whenever he gets the opportunity, Rafe likes nothing more than to cook for family and friends. “Now that the kitchen is done, I’m feeling a little more grounded,” he says. “When I first moved back here, it was a little crazy. I had been gone for 10 years, so being home took a little getting used to … for all of us,” he says, referring to his parents, Ray and Sue Hottenstein, and his sister, Kristen. “But, now that I’m settled, it’s definitely better,” he says, referring to both his professional and private lives.

After graduating from Penn State (hotel and restaurant management), Rafe wanted to expand his horizons and attend culinary school. The Culinary Institute of America at Greystone (Napa Valley) provided the perfect solution, as it offers an intensive course for students who hold related degrees. So, Rafe headed west and, after earning his credentials from the CIA, decided to stay, working in several highly regarded restaurants and embracing the wine-and-food culture of Napa and San Francisco. He also gained an appreciation for California’s farming tradition.

As much as he loved the West, Rafe missed the East. Now he’s merging California-style cuisine with Lancaster County goodness through establishing relationships with local farmers who provide the Greenfield’s kitchen with items that truly embody the farm-to-table concept. “I’m still trying to figure out who has the best produce,” Rafe says of the bounty that comes from California versus Lancaster County. He’s come to the conclusion that you can’t compare the two. “They’re both in a class all their own,” he says. “The only edge California may have is the length of the growing season. And, I’m still trying to find someone around here who grows artichokes,” he jokes. But then again, he couldn’t find Washington Boro tomatoes in California! He’s even growing things in a plot that’s located on the grounds of the restaurant. “We’re growing tomatoes, herbs, garnishes and Swiss chard,” he reports.

He’s also able to “visit” California through the wine dinners the Greenfield hosts. “I love collaborating on the menu with Kristen [who oversees the restaurant’s wine program] and the winery that’s being featured,” he says.

While most people begin the process of designing a kitchen with the cabinetry, Rafe started with appliances, specifically a Thermador gas/convection stove. “And it had to have a stainless backsplash,” he says of his quest to recreate a mini-sized commercial kitchen in his home. In his estimation, a great stove must be accompanied by an equally good dishwasher and refrigerator. “I had a limited amount of space to work with,” he says of the approximate 16×16 square-foot space. “So, I did a lot of research.”

Cabinetry was the next thing on his to-do list and one day, while he and his father were running errands, they decided to stop at Lowe’s and check out the selection. Rafe was impressed, realizing he would be able to get a custom look without taking that route. High ceilings make the room seem bigger than it is, and Rafe took advantage of that feature by running off-white cabinets nearly to the ceiling in order to gain optimum storage space. Several of the cabinets are fronted with glass, which also helps to “expand” the room. The lower cabinets are painted black. Open shelves provide for storage/display without taking up any real estate.

An L-shaped configuration of cabinets on the opposite wall multitasks by providing storage and a nook for the microwave, as well as ample counter space for prepping or displaying food. “People will come into the kitchen and hang out while I’m cooking, so it’s a great place to set up a bar and hors d’oeuvres,” he says.  Appropriately, the walls are painted a hue that mimics red wine; a section was overpainted with black chalkboard paint, which allows Rafe to display the evening’s menu for his guests.

The kitchen’s monochromatic color scheme continues with the backsplash (a combination of metal, ceramic and glass tiles) and the counters, which were crafted from concrete. “I just like the industrial/commercial look they deliver,” he says.

Because the kitchen is a separate entity from the dining room, Rafe likes to treat his guests to what he calls “communal dining.” Such a strategy allows him to join the party and not be stuck in the kitchen. For such dinners, he typically prepares items that can be prepped well ahead of time and popped into the oven or given a quick stir as guests arrive. “Then, you just put it on the table, and everyone can help themselves,” he explains.


CREDITS
Design:
Rafe and Ray Hottenstein
Appliances: Martin Appliance
Cabinetry/Tile:  Lowe’s
Counters: SunWorks, etc.


Recipes by Rafe Hottenstein. The Greenfiield Restaurant & Bar, 595 Greenfiield Rd. 393-0668/thegreenfiieldrestaurant.com

Salt-Baked Whole Rockfish 

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Salt-Baked Whole Rockfish

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Vegetable Cast Iron

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Vegetable Cast Iron

Home Sweet Millennial Home

Three years ago, Matthew Sware decided to buy a house. He found what he deemed a “perfect challenge” in Strasburg and set to work remodeling it. Then, Rachel Sommer came into his life …

You might say Matthew is a bit of a Renaissance Man. He’s fascinated by architecture, history, art, music, food, cooking … the list goes on and on. He’s especially passionate about mid-century modern everything. His home is a reflection of all his interests.

Like other members of his generation, Matthew was anxious to become a homeowner on his terms. He wanted an interesting and comfortable home with minimal maintenance issues. He also wanted to be part of a community. He set his sights on a small house in Strasburg.

An 18th Century Fixer Upper

The house dates to 1785. “It had really mutated over the years,” Matthew says, referring to the many remodeling projects that had been carried out. The earliest involved an actual move: The house had been rolled from the adjacent lot and relocated next door (where it gained a basement). A dormer had been added. German siding, which covered the original log construction, was overlaid by aluminum siding at some point. Pink and gray tile indicated the bathroom had been updated in the 60s.

Cosmetically speaking, the house had its share of challenges. The floors were thick with layers of carpet, linoleum and glue. All the windows had been painted shut. Every wall in the house was wallpapered. “Oh, and nothing was straight,” Matthew says of the walls and ceilings. Fortunately, it was in relatively good shape. “I had a retired home-engineering friend and my neighbor, Chris Lainhoff, of Museum Quality Building Restoration, look it over,” Matthew reports.

Matthew was determined to do much of the work himself, figuring he’d devote nights and weekends to the project. His first goal was to open up the claustrophobic first floor, which was divided into three small rooms. “I just went in and started taking down walls,” he explains. In doing so, a summer beam – the precursor to load-bearing walls – was revealed. “It had been plastered over,” Matthew explains of the steel-like beam that had been carved from an American chestnut tree. Matthew deemed it a keeper.

Another treasure was unveiled once the floors were scraped of the layers of carpet, linoleum and glue. White pine covered the floors in the living area. “They were original,” Matthew says, pointing out the Roman numeral tracking marks he found on several of them and explaining the random sizes related to their price tag. “You paid by the cut,” he notes. While the floor in the kitchen was not original, Matthew surmised the yellow pine boards had served as a subfloor at one time and worked to revive them. He managed to save both floors by hand scraping them and using a 5-inch orbital sander to refinish them. Traditional shellac added just the right sheen.

Rachel

Matthew is a member of a choral group at St. James Episcopal that specializes in early and traditional music. Folk/fraktur artist Lynn Sommer is a member of the group. Her daughter, Rachel, was borrowing her car and agreed to pick Lynn up at the church after rehearsals. Lynn introduced the two, and soon Rachel was joining the group for after-rehearsal gatherings. Rachel and Matthew clicked; however the timing wasn’t the greatest. Matthew was only two months into his remodeling/restoration project. “I explained to her that my time was committed to the house, and she was fine with it,” Matthew recalls. It soon became their project. “We learned to compromise on details,” Matthew reports. They were married in the spring of 2015.

The Kindness of Neighbors

Matthew says he could not have completed the project without the support of friends, family and neighbors. Chris Lainhoff provided “invaluable help. He’d help me nights and weekends,” Matthew reports. Furniture maker extraordinaire Steve Van Ormer also served as a consultant and refinished the dining room table. Lynn Sommer and fellow folk artist, Jim King, turned the staircase into a work of art. Dwayne Lapp did his magic and was able to seamlessly merge plaster and drywall surfaces. “Family and friends always showed up for our painting days,” Matthew says.

He’s especially grateful to the Strasburg Heritage Society, which was incorporated in 1972 and established the town’s 2-mile-long historic district. “They were a real help,” he says of the advice and expertise members provided. “The Heritage Society is a real treasure.”

The Finishing Touches

Matthew and Rachel devised a traditional meets mid-century modern vibe for their home, which was deemed finished last October. “It was a two-year project,” Matthew notes. While it doesn’t fit the definition of a “tiny house” that is currently all the rage on home-design television shows, at 1,200 square feet it’s certainly no McMansion. “We wanted a house we could live in,” Matthew remarks. “I think it proves what you can do with a little bit of space.”

“We love living in Strasburg,” Matthew continues, naming its friendliness, sense of community pride and walkability as favorite aspects of small-town living. No matter which direction they turn, “We’re within minutes of coffee shops,” he points out.


CREDITS
Advice/Expertise: Chris Lainhoff; Strasburg Heritage Society; Andrew Rothaker; Steve Van Ormer
Table Refinishing: Steve Van Ormer
Kitchen Cabinetry: Seven Trees Woodworking
Staircase Art: Lynn Sommer and Jim King
Plaster/Drywall: Dwayne Lapp, Lanchester Drywall
Electrical Contractor: Tom Pontz

Going Underground

Dwight Graybill of Cocalico Builders views the basement as a hidden treasure. “Finishing or remodeling a basement is a great way to utilize square footage that often goes to waste and expand your living and entertaining space,” he says. “Plus, it does wonders for the equity in your home.”

Dwight’s clients wanted to update the lower level of their 25-year-old home. The basement had been finished to the extent that the block walls were painted and the floor carpeted. A brick wall provided the backdrop for a wood-burning stove. “It was really outdated,” the homeowner says, and with grandchildren expanding the size of the family, they needed a place where everyone could gather.

So, they turned to Dwight. “They showed me pictures of things they liked, and we went from there,” he says of the project.

The space was divided into five zones that were ultimately dedicated to a bar, two game areas, a media room and a small dining area. An existing bathroom was also remodeled. The game plan called for raising the ceilings as high as possible in order to create bulkheads through which ductwork, mechanicals and electrical lines travel. The bulkheads also help to visually demarcate each area. Tray ceilings distinguish the bar and the billiards room.

Drywall now encloses the entire space. “We rounded the edges,” Dwight points out. “I think it helps to soften up smaller spaces.”

The carpet was replaced with a vinyl interlock floating floor that is a dead ringer for hardwood. “It’s almost indestructible,” Dwight reports. “The homeowners were a little doubtful about its durability, so I took a hammer to it and nothing happened. It might be more durable than bamboo.”

The barnwood-inspired floor, with its hand-scraping and hit-or-miss markings, created a blueprint for the custom-built bar and moldings. Wanting the wood to match the mood of the floor, Dwight and his crew “aged” it with hammers, picks and chains before it was stained. “We wanted that wormy look,” he explains.  Honed granite complemented the aged look.

Tin covers the  tray ceilings in the bar and billiards room. “The homeowners wanted a specific color, so I took it to a local body shop and was able to get an exact match,” Dwight notes.

Lighting, no doubt, sets the space apart from a typical basement remodel. “Lighting is everywhere,” Dwight remarks, “and it’s all on dimmers. It’s gorgeous at night.” The homeowner especially likes the rope lighting that softly illuminates the crown molding.

Sound zones were also incorporated into the design. “Someone can be watching the television in the media area while music is on in the billiards area, and the TV is on in the bar without anything interfering with the other. It’s quite amazing,” says the homeowner.

The bar art is equally as amazing. “We had a lot of fun with that,” the homeowner reports. “My wife saw on Craigslist that a bar in Reading, which had closed in the 70s, was selling everything, so we went and came home with all kinds of stuff,” he says of the neon signs, vintage trays and coasters they purchased.
Space was also created to accommodate the homeowner’s three prized pinball machines.

As you might guess, the basement has morphed into more of a man cave. “I enjoy hanging out down here,” the homeowner admits. “But it’s great when the family gets together. We especially enjoy it in the fall and winter months.”


CREDITS
Design/Build:
Dwight Graybill, Cocalico Builders, Cocalicobuilders.net
Finishes/Stonework: Cocalico Builders
Electrical Contractor: Tyler Fichthorn, Fichthorn Electric
HVAC: Andy Shenk, Lanco Heating & Air Conditioning
Plumbing: Jeff Lied, Melron Industries
Cabinetry/Bar/Moldings: Martin’s Custom Cabinets
Flooring: Martin’s Flooring
Stone Supplier: Lancaster Stone
A/V System: WeeBee Audio Video
Furnishings:  InteriorsHome

The Powder Room

It may be the smallest room in the house, but as a result of guests inevitably asking the same question – “Where is the bathroom?” – it’s probably the most seen. “I think it’s a critical room in a house, especially if you entertain a lot,” says general contractor Pete Heth. “Without it, the whole traffic flow of the house changes.”

Because of its size, the powder room is the perfect space to go a little overboard. This is your chance to wow ‘em with high-intensity wallpaper, a dazzling shade of paint, luxe surfaces, interesting plumbing fixtures, dynamic flooring and dramatic lighting.

Carol Heth took that route when she and Pete redesigned the powder room that plays an integral role on the first floor of their home. Whether they’re looking after their grandchildren or entertaining dinner guests, the powder room receives its share of visitors. Located off the foyer (which was originally the kitchen) and tucked beneath a staircase, the powder room is easily accessible from the kitchen, dining room, sitting room and even the outdoor-living area.

Carol was dying to use the dramatic wallpaper – black with sparkling silver swirls – she had seen and declared it a perfect choice for the powder room. She also deemed the vessel-style sink she had purchased for one of those “what-if” projects a perfect fit as well. “It was on sale, so I bought it figuring we’d find a project for it. But, customers shied away from it, and it sat in the garage,” she explains. The granite counter was created by a company in Virginia that the couple worked with at their beach home in North Carolina. “They had a remnant that was the right color and size, so we sent them a template and picked it up on our way north,” Pete explains. The cabinet, which Carol designed, was created by Horizon Kitchens. A sparkling, mini-sized chandelier (with a drum-shade surround) and hammered metal mirror provided the finishing touches. The industrial-looking floor tile even adds some subtle sparkle. “There’s a whole lot of stuff packed into that small space,” Pete notes.


CREDITS:
Design/Build: Pete Heth General Contractor, 717-538-3877
Vessel Sink: Thos. Somerville Co.
Cabinetry: Horizon Kitchens
Flooring: ProSource
Lighting: Yale Lighting Concepts & Design
Wallpaper: York Wallcoverings
Mirror: HomeGoods

 

Colleen Jackson and Robert Murphy, II

Rain squelched Colleen and Rob’s plan to take advantage of iconic landmarks in downtown Lancaster for their post-ceremony photography session with Ben Reeder. Instead the newlyweds and their wedding party headed for the train station, which provided interesting backdrops for photography. Ben Reeder Photography.

Rain squelched Colleen and Rob’s plan to take advantage of iconic landmarks in downtown Lancaster for their post-ceremony photography session with Ben Reeder. Instead the newlyweds and their wedding party headed for the train station, which provided interesting backdrops for photography. Ben Reeder Photography.

June 27, 2015

Photography: Ben Reeder Photography Bridal
Gown: Classic Weddings; custom alterations by Thara Rameriz
Attendants’ Gowns: J. Crew
Groom & Groomsmen’s Attire: Kenneth Cole
Venue: The Booking House, Manheim
Floral Design: Splints & Daisies Catering: Greenfield Catering
Cake: Rosie’s Creative Cakes
Band: Lima Bean Riot, Philadelphia

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Anne Nikolaus and Paul Pereira

Anne Nikolaus realized her dream of holding her wedding reception at the Lancaster Country Club, where she grew up playing golf. Kylene Lynn Photography.

Anne Nikolaus realized her dream of holding her wedding reception at the Lancaster Country Club, where she grew up playing golf. Kylene Lynn Photography.

March 7, 2015

Photographer: Kylene Lynn Photography
Wedding Planner/Coordinator: Shumaker PDT/Lisa Wood
Event Planner: Wes Taylor/ Lancaster Country Club
Bridal Gown: Carolina Herrera/Saks, New York
Attendants’ Gowns: Noir by Lazaro
Groom’sAttire: Custom tuxedo by Robbini Bespoke, Philadelphia
Groomsmen’s Attire: Vera Wang tuxedos
Anne’s Hair: Salvatore Patane/ Suede Salon & Spa, Philadelphia
Anne’s Makeup: Ashley Bohl/ AshleyMarie Artistry, Philadelphia
Floral Design: Stacia McClune- McComsey/Petals With Style
Linens: Special Occasions & Queen Street Linens Catering: Lancaster Country Club|
Cake: Renee Hackman/Bella Manse
Invitations and All Things Printed: Persnickety Invitation Studio
Band: Dreamtime of EBE Entertainment, Philadelphia
After-party DJ: Jason Weiss, Philadelphia
Videographer: Blue Sky Films, Silver Spring, MD
Ice Sculpture: Ice Concepts, Inc., Hatfield, PA
Transportation: Unique Limousine, Harrisburg Rehearsal Dinner: Hamilton Club

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7 Valentine’s Day Tips

I remember the good, the bad, and the ugly Valentine’s Days of my youth. One year, my sister and I were both single, so we decided to visit the local tanning bed salon, pick up a movie and grab a few candy bars on our way out. Another year, I was amazed at receiving a vast number of carnations and roses at my high school (Go Bulldogs!). Then, there was the year my boyfriend told me that he wasn’t doing anything special for Valentine’s Day because “it was just another day.” (Sigh)

So, in honor of the day, I have chosen seven tips to make the most of your day when celebrating (or not celebrating) St. Valentine.

  1. Plan Ahead. Whether single or in a relationship, do a little digging and plan your day or entire weekend. If you’re single, have a movie night with the girls (or guys). If you’re in a relationship … you should have already been making said plans.
  2. Buy the Chocolate and the Flowers. Ladies, you know you already crave it anyways, so why not go ahead and indulge in the temptation! Treat your partner or yourself. Holidays don’t roll around enough in my book, so take advantage of this “lovely” cheat day and enjoy! While you’re at it, pick up some flowers. Brighten your day – and your home – with a lovely bouquet.
  3. Take a Trip. Yes, take advice from #1 in this list (plan) and take a day or weekend trip. It may be an hour or two away or a little staycation in your own backyard. Take your BFF and hit the beach, or grab your significant other and explore the mountains or the big city.
  4. Do Something Different. If you fall into the same old routine year after year, do something out of the ordinary. Wanting to visit an art museum, but you never have time to do it? Now you do. Want to learn how to knit a scarf for your cat(s)? Here you go; now is the purrrfect time to get started.
  5. Don’t Watch That Movie! My sister loves watching romantic comedies. When I lived in Alabama (and was 30 and single), she would invite me over to her house and would always say, “Have you seen the movie …?” Usually, the answer was “no,” which gave her the inevitable and authoritative right to play the movie. One of those particular romcoms was “Something Borrowed,” where Ginnifer Goodwin turns 30 and is single (plot thickens, boys are involved, heart breaks, heart mends, happily ever after). I hated characters, and then I loved those characters. I threw the remote at one point. DON’T DO IT! Instead, watch a comedy with a best friend, cousin, coworker, just not alone. Or, don’t watch anything. Paint, go for a jog, bake a cake, just don’t watch that sappy movie by yourself. Don’t! (You may want to rule out the Hallmark Channel, as well.)
  6. Stay Home. Don’t worry about making dinner reservations or catching that 7 p.m. movie. Plan for a night in instead. Prepare a meal ahead of time (shop for groceries earlier that week, schedule your courses & prep time, etc.). Binge watch on Netflix or Hulu (Just not romantic movies, unless you want to while snuggling with your other half). If you’re single, throw a party. Once again, plan ahead, prepare, and if you want to binge on Netflix and Hulu, do so with your guests (if they’re not too busy eating your chocolate).
  7. Write a Letter. Go old school. It’s also an inexpensive gift. In a relationship or single, a card or letter from the heart says it best. My husband and my mom both say they’d rather have a card with meaningful messages than $100 worth of gifts. If you’re single, why not write a letter to your sibling, best friend, parents, grandparents, coworker, niece, nephew, etc. Shoot, why not write the entire family a loving message on this all-things love day?!

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Kelly Webster and Daniel Weaver

Kelly names the movie Robin Hood: Prince of Thieves as the inspiration for her wedding. Kate L. Jeffreys Photography.

Kelly names the movie Robin Hood: Prince of Thieves as the inspiration for her wedding. Kate L. Jeffreys Photography.

September 27, 2014

Photography: Kate L. Jeffreys Photography
Bridal Gown: Ralph Lauren Celebration Dress: Alberto Makali
Attendants’ Gowns: Mod Cloth Groom’s Attire: Jos. A. Bank
Groomsmen’s Attire: J. Crew
Hair & Makeup: Julie Ann Krothe/Shear Miracle Organics Salon
Floral Design: Kelly and her mother, Vandy Garrison
Linens: In addition to borrowing items from family members, linens came from Thisolthing? and Rental World
Catering: Fresh Catering, Lititz
Cake: Rach Cakes
DJ: Woody Grubbs

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Giving … Lancaster’s All Heart

Lancaster’s Extraordinary Give, a 24-hour tour de force that envelops the Lancaster community in a donation-a-thon for 367 area nonprofit organizations, is one reason why the Lancaster Metropolitan area is rated the most giving city in Pennsylvania by Philanthropy.com.

The extraordinary give is a shining example of how the people of Lancaster County choose to invest in the future of their community. The Lancaster County Community Foundation’s fourth Extraordinary Give, which kicked off at the stroke of midnight last November 20, generated $6.1 million over the course of 24 hours, topping the previous year’s record by 35%. Thanks to the Foundation and its corporate sponsors, donated dollars are stretched by another $300,000.

While many donors did so with a few clicks on their home or office laptops – online donations were made at the rate of $70 per second – there were plenty of more socially oriented opportunities to make donations. The Eastern Lancaster County Library pulled an all-nighter in New Holland, staying open midnight to midnight. Supporters of the Lancaster Housing Opportunity Partnership rang in the Extra Give at Characters Pub, with music, food and camaraderie. Leo’s Helping Paws kicked off its giving efforts at 5 a.m. at Ephrata’s Pancake Farm. Amenities like complimentary cappuccinos and homemade pie, musical and Shakespearean performances and Star Wars costumed characters were the attractions at various nonprofit headquarters and affiliated locations throughout the day.

The Lancaster County Community Foundation took its giving on the road with the Give Mobile. Generous-minded passersby could take a moment to download the Extra Give app or donate then-and-there to their favorite causes at the Amtrak train station, Willow Valley Communities, and hotspots in Lititz, Bird-in-Hand and Ephrata. The Give Mobile’s path was tracked like Santa’s sleigh on Christmas Eve by a local radio station. Let no giving stone go unturned!

by evening, the streets of downtown Lancaster were filled with Extra Give energy. The Ware Center’s Giving Party featured drinks and hors d’oeuvres, music, live animals and film, as well as representatives of 19 nonprofit organizations, who were standing by to help visitors get to know their missions and needs.

A collaboration of 14 nonprofits created a giving-focused party at King Street’s Tellus360. The Great Giving Gig featured musicians rocking for the cause, as visitors were invited to party as they donated. “We’re paying tribute to our thriving city,” said Tellus360’s online invitation, “exemplifying how Social Enterprise works by partnering local FOR-profit businesses with NON-profits, inspiring GIVING and social responsibility.”

The epicenter of the Extra Give was buzzing a block away at the Lancaster Marriott at Penn Square and the Lancaster County Convention Center, where the finale of the big day – the Extra Give Fest – was in full swing. Two stages featured a rotating list of seven local musicians and groups, from the mellow jazz of Amy Banks to the bluegrassy rock of Vinegar Creek Constituency. The Marriott lobby was teeming with a diverse cross section of folks, many with philanthropy on their minds.

Lisa Groff, of The Groffs Family Funeral and Cremation Services, was inspired. “All these wonderful organizations need our support,” she said. “This is a milestone for our community.” Lisa had donated throughout the day, but “when you’re here, you feel like you can give a little more,” she said.

“We’re ecstatic!” said Christine Dombrowsky, development director of The Mix at Arbor Place, a few hours before the midnight deadline. “We’ve already exceeded last year’s number.”

Benchmark Construction Company’s Mike Callahan is a board member of the Lancaster County Community Foundation. “I’m here as a rah-rah cheerleader,” he explained of his role, “and it’s a great thing to cheer about.”

“It’s the connecting, the touch, the sense of community getting together for philanthropy,” explained Tracy Cutler, who oversees much of the Extra Give’s initiatives as the Foundation’s communications VP. “We’re engaging a new generation,” she observed, noting that in 2014, 30% of the donors were first-time givers.

That new generation was well-represented at the lobby’s “Donation Stations,” laptop kiosks that allowed donors to make their gives on the spot. It worked for Aimee Dilucido and Matt Clement, who chose Music For Everyone for their donation. “One of our first dates was walking around the city looking at the [Keys for the City] pianos,” Aimee recalled, which is one of the organization’s projects. And Matt played the violin while in elementary school, which was made possible by a community program in his hometown, “so I know how important it is,” he said.

The foundation also engaged some local creative energy. Specialists in building the infrastructure of large-scale events, Shumaker PDT (Plan/Design/Transform) routinely designs party spaces for corporate and individual clients. Atomic Design of Lititz brought its lighting and set construction creative juices to combine with Shumaker to inject a music festival atmosphere into the mix.

And then there’s the Griest Building. Penn Square’s stately “skyscraper” was illuminated by Atomic Design’s tech wizards in an ever-changing pattern of lights, a visible sign of the energy flowing throughout the city on this special night.

The minutes ticked down to midnight, and the crowd moved into the Convention Center’s ballroom for the magic moment: the announcement of the grand total of the day’s fundraising by Foundation CEO Sam Bressi. The crowd gathered to watch the tote board continue to move toward – could it be? – the $6 million threshold.

Yes, $6,132,344 is ultimately the grand total, and a collective sense of joy, wonder and gratitude permeated the ballroom. Extraordinary, indeed.


The Lancaster County Community Foundation is located at 24 W. King St., Suite 201. For more information, call 397-1629 or visit lancfound.org.

 

The Top 10 from 2015’s Extraordinary Give

Water Street Mission $269,128

Children Deserve a Chance Foundation $252,257

Delaware Valley Golden Retriever Rescue $162,441

WJTL Creative Ministries $159,562

Lancaster Bible College $128,470

Lancaster County Conservancy $75,485

Lancaster Mennonite School $69,738

Central PA Food Bank $68,316

Schreiber Pediatric Center $66,530

Lititz Christian School $63,301