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Standing in the Shoes of the Mother of the Bride

One of the wedding day moments Kim Roche treasured was helping her daughter dress for the ceremony.

With all eyes on the bride and groom, the parents of the betrothed couple are sometimes wedding day footnotes. But, their personal moments of joy, awe and overwhelming love are equally poignant.

Kim Roche recalls the moment she saw her daughter Stephanie in what would be chosen as her wedding gown. “A group of her besties and I were invited to shop with her. We would comment, ‘Oh, that’s pretty,’ or say something nice about each dress,” Kim remembers. “But, when she entered the room in the dress, we were completely silent. There were no words.”

While Stephanie and Mike were being photographed in the picturesque environs of the Lancaster Country Club, guests used the two-hour break to explore downtown Lancaster’s fun spots.

Stevie, as she is known to her family and friends, and her groom, Mike Griffin, are Boston-based, but 29-year-old Stevie had spent much of her life in Lancaster, having graduated from Lancaster Catholic High School. Her mother, Kim, and stepfather, WGAL News8 anchor Brian Roche, are long-time Lancaster residents, so it was natural to come home to create a ceremony at Historic St. Mary’s Catholic Church in downtown Lancaster, a reception at Lancaster Country Club and rehearsal dinner at the Hamilton Club.

Historic St. Mary’s Catholic Church, which was the site of the wedding, is so elegant that flowers were unnecessary.

For the groom’s family and friends, the September 21 event was a destination wedding that also showcased some of the best of Lancaster. “Guests raved about how impressed they were with Lancaster,” Kim says. “They explored Central Market and downtown’s cool coffee shops, took drives into the Amish-populated countryside and enjoyed the views at The Exchange. Some extended their weekend to travel to Gettysburg, Annapolis and Washington, D.C.”

The couple’s seven bridesmaids and seven groomsmen (including two best men and two matrons of honor) joined them for photos on the steps of the old courthouse building.

The day before the wedding, Brian organized 24 of the guys to play golf on the iconic course at Lancaster Country Club, while the ladies were entertained with lunch at Sugarplums & Tea. Following the couple’s 73-guest rehearsal dinner, the groom’s parents threw a party for 150 out-of-town-guests the night before the wedding. Kim loved the result, explaining, “It took the pressure off the bride and groom having to visit every guest table at the reception, so that became a fabulous dance party!”

Kim Roche, daughter Stephanie and her husband Mike Griffin, and Kim’s husband, Brian Roche. As the hostess of the party – the reception – every mother of the bride deserves to have her own aisle style! Kim chose a non-traditional MOB look in navy ombre, lace and textural sparkle. While Brian offered a reading during the ceremony, he felt his role of the day was to “take care of the mother of the bride.”

A blended family, Kim and Brian’s adult sons and daughters have embraced each other as brothers and sisters. “It’s touching to hear how our children talk to each other and reach out to each other on their own,” says Kim.

Brian’s daughter, Lara, served as Stevie’s matron of honor, along with another of Stevie’s stepsisters, and his son, Myles, joined Kim’s son, Colby, as groomsmen. “With one day to go before the guests’ arrival, we had one more intimate family dinner on Thursday night, which was the perfect time to relax together before all the excitement revved up,” Kim notes.

The bride carried fabric from her grandmother’s dress, along with photo charms of her deceased grandparents, in her bouquet.

Another take-your-breath-away moment, Kim recalls, was helping her daughter get dressed. Using a Chestnut Street Airbnb as the wedding party’s makeup, hair and dressing rooms, Kim held the train of her daughter’s gown as she descended the stairs to oohs, aahs and gasps from her bridesmaids.

Kim Roche and grandmother-of-the-bride, Linda Pecorari.

In a rare, quiet moment ahead of the ceremony, the bride shared a card with her mother. “Today is my day, but it’s also your day,” Stevie had written. “I admire you for being my mom.”

The bride also honored other family members, present and past. She carried a swatch of lace from Kim’s mother’s wedding dress wrapped around her bouquet. Deceased grandparents’ photos were framed in small charms that she also carried in her bouquet.

“It was an amazing day,” Kim reflects. “Watching this person who is so accomplished and so put together – my daughter – I had such a sense of pride.” Kim admits she was emotionally spent at the end of the weekend, but that didn’t stop her from hosting a catered Sunday brunch for 60 at the Roches’ home. “You dream about a day like this,” she says. “I wouldn’t have changed a thing.”

 

Resources:

Bride and Mother of the Bride Gowns – In White

Makeup – MKUP The Beauty Studio

Flowers – Moss + Vine

Rentals – Treasured Events

Wedding Day Coordinator – Margaret Eberly-Stoltz

Reception Lighting & Drapery – STRAY Production Services

Cake – The Baker’s Table

Band – Big Ric Rising

Ceremony – Historic St. Mary’s Catholic Church

Reception Venue – Lancaster Country Club

Photography – Katie Ulrich

Videography – Garrity Powers

Little Charlie Gets Married

I’m a sucker for weddings and have always enjoyed working on the January issue of the magazine. I’m a devoted fan of Say Yes to the Dress and have probably seen each episode at least five times. Interviewing the show’s Randy Fenoli (twice!) was a thrill of a lifetime.

In doing research for this year’s issue, I kept coming across a term, micro wedding – a concept that seems to be making inroads in Lancaster County. Even the largest venues – barns and hotels – are addressing the preference for smaller weddings. Yes, the full-blown wedding extravaganzas are still popular, but thanks to the millennials, small, intimate gatherings of family and close friends are also trending.

Well before micro wedding entered my lexicon, I was afforded an up-close view of the planning of a millennial wedding. My son, Charlie, who just barely qualifies as a millennial, was married December 22, 2018. He and his fiancée, Jenny, planned a small wedding for 250. Jenny’s heritage is Syrian, so by her culture’s standards, 250 is considered micro. Her sister’s wedding was twice that size.

Coming up with a guest list for our side of the family took no time at all. Over time, our numbers have dwindled. Only-child Charlie invited the cousins he is close to, a favorite uncle, a few close friends and some co-workers. I dissuaded him from inviting relatives we haven’t seen for years or live on the other side of the country. To me, it looks like you’re just fishing for gifts.

As for myself, I was initially comfortable with taking the solo route. But, the more I thought about it, the more I envisioned myself looking like Meghan Markle’s mother and called down to Virginia to make certain my sister, Ginny, was coming to Bethlehem for the wedding. (By the way, Bethlehem is a beautiful place for a Christmas wedding.) She said she was working on it, but the timing – the weekend before Christmas – wasn’t the best. At the time, she had eight dogs. All her dog sitters were out of town or busy that weekend and boarding them was cost prohibitive. In the end, her husband volunteered to stay home with the dogs so that she could attend the wedding.

The Catholic ceremony was very traditional, but as Ginny and I settled in at our table at the reception, we looked at each other as if to say, “I don’t think we’re in Lancaster County anymore!” Panic set in when I learned the wedding party had to dance down the aisle – to Arabic music – as each was introduced. I would be first up. I suddenly developed a taste for cranberry juice and vodka, downed a few and sort of danced/ran down the aisle. Next up was Arabic hors d’ oeuvres (very tasty), followed by dinner, which was a mix of Arabic and American dishes. Then, the Michael Bublé of Syria burst onto the dance floor to belt out some tunes. There must have been code words in the songs because guests would suddenly shower Charlie and Jenny with dollar bills. It was all very fascinating.

Finding a dress was not a picnic. I’m not a dress person, but I got the distinct impression from Jenny that I needed to go all out. I asked what their colors were and upon being told “burgundy and gold,” my initial reaction was, “You mean like the Redskins?” I was told “yes and no” – they alluded to the fact that their first date was a Redskins-Steelers game in D.C., but they also qualify as Christmas colors.

Jenny’s attendants would be wearing burgundy and her mother already had dibs on gold. That didn’t leave me much leeway, so I decided on rose/pink. I started perusing the internet for ideas and visited a few local shops (unfortunately, I was cutting it close to order anything).

Because I had worked retail, I was familiar with the labels and started an online search. I found something I liked through a department store, ordered it and had it in two days. I found a pair of bedazzled flats through another department store and had them in a matter of days. I dug out my prom-era Watt & Shand clutch for a touch of vintage.

I was set. Or, so I thought. The dress needed hemmed and the more I tried it on, the more trouble I had with the zipper. I called Country Threads by Gail and made an appointment for alterations. Owner Gail Heckrote Mendenhall and her staff were wonderful. The dress was hemmed in a week and when I went for a final fitting, Gail said she had concerns about the zipper. She wanted to replace it. Again, the alteration was handled quickly, and the new zipper worked beautifully. Disaster averted! I also found the perfect pair of earrings there.

I don’t know if it’s a tradition or a trend of any kind, but Charlie and I enjoyed a very special mother-and-son outing – sort of a last hurrah – a few months before the wedding. We are huge baseball fans, and that summer the All-Star game was in D.C. We managed to get tickets for the home-run derby. We got to D.C. early in the day so that we could visit the Capitals team store (they had just won the Stanley Cup), take in Fanfest at the convention center (more shopping), eat at our favorite Navy Yards restaurant and go to the Nats team store at Nationals Park. (The boy likes to shop. Needless to say, he’s bought every Nationals World Series tchotchke that exists.)

We only had one glitch the entire day – at my direction, we boarded the wrong Metro train and ended up somewhere in Virginia. As for the home-run derby, which was an awesome experience, some guy named Harper was the winner.

– Suzanne Starling-Long

Top 10 January Events

1 January 24-25
2nd Annual Festival of the Arts

Main Street Mount Joy

A variety of artists will be in downtown Mount Joy, exhibiting their work among the many retail shops and restaurants. Main Street, Mount Joy. January 24, 5-8 p.m. January 25, 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Information: 717-653-4227 or mainstreetmountjoy.com.

2 January 10-18
Beach Party Blast

Prima Theatre

Here’s a sun-drenched cure for your winter blues! Enjoy all the top summer songs – past and present. Join Prima Under The Boardwalk for a theatrical concert experience that will have you Surfin’ U.S.A. 941 Wheatland Ave., Suite A. Information: 717-327-5124 or primalancaster.org.

3 January 24-February 9
Frozen Jr.

EPAC

Growing up with sisters can be tough, especially when one has untamed ice powers. But, no matter how far they drift apart, love will always bring them back together, and quite possibly save the world. Disney’s Frozen (2013 movie), about sisters Elsa and Anna, became an instant worldwide sensation, thawing frozen hearts everywhere. Now, Disney’s Frozen, Jr. gives local kids a chance to star in the fan-favorite musical as part of EPAC’s Kids4Kids show. 320 Cocalico St., Ephrata. Information: 717-733-7966 or ephrataperformingartscenter.com.

4 January 19
Melhorn Manor Annual Open House

Melhorn Manor

Take a tour of the stunning Melhorn Manor! Guests will see and feel first-hand how magical their weddings can be. Meet the owners of Melhorn Manor and 40 amazingly talented vendors. Enjoy complimentary food samples, specialty drinks, fun music provided by professional DJs, door prizes and so much more. Tickets are $5. 977 W. Main St., Mount Joy. 1-4 p.m. Information: facebook.com/events/418616118846847 or eventbrite.com.

5 January 20
32nd Annual Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Breakfast

Millersville University – Student Memorial Center

Each year over 700 community leaders gather to honor Dr. King’s legacy. The 32nd annual event is being presented by Crispus Attucks, a program of the Community Action Partnership.
This year’s theme – Peace in the Presence of Justice: Transforming Communities through Restorative Practices – will feature keynote speaker Dr. Fania Davis. Hailed by the Los Angeles Times as one of the “New Civil Rights Leaders of the 21st Century,” Dr. Davis is a social justice advocate, a restorative justice practitioner and scholar, and a former civil rights attorney. She grew up in Birmingham, Alabama, during the civil rights era and in 2005 founded Restorative Justice for Oakland Youth. The event will include a buffet breakfast, performances and the presentation of the Essence of Humanity Award, sponsored by the High Foundation, and the Ruby Payne Cook Award. It will be emceed by Ron Martin of WGAL. Registration/Coffee and Conversation begin at 6:30 a.m. Breakfast/Program is from 7-9 a.m. 81 Shenks Lane, Millersville. Information: eventbrite.com.

6 January 18
10th Anniversary Sierra Club-Lancaster Group
Polar Bear 5K Trail Run/Hike

Lancaster County Central Park

The Sierra Club–Lancaster Group invites runners and hikers to participate in its 5K Trail Run/Hike. The 3.1-mile race winds through the park on well-maintained trails (with some hills). Leashed dogs are welcome. All money raised by this major fundraising event supports local efforts to end global warming and will help finance the group’s “green project” grant program, which has awarded grants of up to $500 to 44 Lancaster County organizations over the past four years. The money will also help support the group’s free outdoor activities and educational programs that are designed to help people better appreciate, protect and preserve the environment. 1050 Rockford Rd. 10 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Information: lancastersierraclub.org, facebook.com/sierraclublancaster or sierraclubevent@gmail.com.

7 January 9-February 15
The Savannah Sipping Society

Dutch Apple Dinner Theatre

In this delightful, laugh-a-minute comedy, four unique Southern women are drawn together by fate – and an impromptu happy hour – and decide it’s high time to reclaim the enthusiasm for life they’ve lost through the years.

Over the course of six months, filled with laughter, hilarious misadventures and the occasional liquid refreshment, these middle-aged women successfully bond and find the confidence to jumpstart their new lives. Recommended for ages 10 and up. 510 Centerville Rd. Information: 717-898-1900 or dutchapple.com.

8 January 11
Pound & Pour

Nissley Vineyards

Sweat, sculpt and rock with POUND Instructor Heather Cintron. Channel your inner rock-star with this full-body cardio jam session, inspired by drumming. Using Ripstix, lightly weighted exercise drumsticks, torch calories and tone while rocking out to your favorite music! Following a 45-minute workout, treat yourself to a complimentary sampling of six Nissley wines or one glass of your favorite Nissley wine. Event is held rain or shine. Limited spots are available. 140 Vintage Dr., Bainbridge. 10-11:30 a.m. Information: 717-426-3514 or nissleywine.com.

9 January 19
Lancaster Royal Princess Ball

Eden Resort & Suites

The Royal Princess Ball is the most magical family event of the year! Bring your little ones into the world of enchantment and wonder that makes childhood so beautiful and special. This event is designed to show that love and family are everything, magic is real, good always wins and dreams really do come true! The day includes amazing performances from the princesses, beautiful music, song, dance, fairytale stories and lots of smiles and hugs. Children are welcome to dress up as princesses! Children who are 1-year-old and under do not need a ticket. Tickets sell out quickly! 222 Eden Rd. 10 a.m.-6 p.m. Information: eventbrite.com.

10 January
Landis Valley Village & Farm Museum Classes

Landis Valley Village & Farm Museum

Kick off the New Year by learning a new skill or crafting a new hobby! January 4: Needle Felting Class at Landis Valley – Snowman. January 18: Basket Making – Make a Cherokee Caddy Basket. January 19: Needle Felting Class at Landis Valley – Sheep. January 25: False Graining Class – Upcycle Frames. 2451 Kissel Hill Rd. Information: 717-569-0401 or landisvalleymuseum.org.

Start Off the New Year With Sauerkraut

In the days leading up to New Year’s, churches and fire companies across Lancaster County are busy preparing pork and sauerkraut. For them, the dinners help to raise needed funding for projects and equipment. As for those who celebrate the New Year with the hearty Pennsylvania Dutch meal, they hope it will bring them wealth, health and good luck.

Jack Hillard prepares 24 heads of cabbage – roughly 140+ pounds – to make sauerkraut. Each year he generously gives out 2 pints each to “30-some people.” In 2019, he produced approximately 80 quarts of sauerkraut, filling six crocks.

How did we come to eat pork and sauerkraut for New Year’s? It’s a cultural thing that dates back to Germany and made the transition to America. Food historian, author and Pennsylvania Dutch cooking authority William Woys Weaver explains that the tradition grew out of the mid-winter feasts that coincided with the ritual of butchering hogs. Also, cabbage that had been fermenting since the fall harvest was ready to eat. Add some potatoes and the Pennsylvania Germans had a tasty meal to enjoy for New Year’s and beyond. Even after home butchering became passé in the late 1800s, the pork and sauerkraut dinners continued – notably to ring in the New Year.

The tasty dinner – which provides a nice transition from decadent holiday fare – also has some superstitions connected to it. Pork has a positive connotation – pigs root forward. The bright-green cabbage represents the color of money. I remember my grandmother telling us sauerkraut was for good luck, that green foods would bring money in the New Year.
The tale connected to cabbage/sauerkraut also promises that the number of shreds you eat will be proportionate to the state of your wealth, health or luck in the coming year. Finding an extra-long shred equates to living a long life.

When finished, Jack mixes sauerkraut from each crock to ensure consistency in every jar.

Jack’s Blue Ribbon Sauerkraut

As Christmas approached last year, my close friend Erin Young suggested that I follow “Gramps” around when he makes sauerkraut. Gramps is Jack Hillard, whose sauerkraut is highly regarded among connoisseurs. On the occasions I’ve had to sample it, I always noticed it didn’t last long. This past fall, his sauerkraut won a blue ribbon at the New Holland Farmers Fair.

Appreciating craftsmanship, quality and history, Jack has a shared affinity for antique cookware – not for the sake of collecting, but for utilitarian purposes. When I stopped by one evening to visit, Jack was pouring water into a couple of old stoneware crocks he had recently bought. Noting my curiosity, he explained he was checking for leaks before the big sauerkraut-making day got underway.

Jack Hillard’s prize-winning sauerkraut. Stored in the fridge directly after fermentation, it’s tangy, a little sweet and has just the right crunch.

In New Holland, the Hillard family has roots immediately neighboring my own Overly and also Kurtz families. I grew up with Jack’s grandson, John, and only years later did I learn that my Uncle Neal and Grandpa Overly used to ride dirt bikes with Jack and his son, Todd. Pictures that go back 100 years or more verify the connections between
the families.

I looked at my time with Jack as an opportunity to ask about local and family history. A New Year’s resolution worth keeping: spend time this year learning or teaching an old recipe with a family member. Passing on traditions and stories that live outside a handwritten recipe can pay dividends across generations.

Crocks

If you can’t find any crocks in your grandmother’s attic and don’t want to pay an exorbitant amount at local antiques shops, Reading China & Glass has a great selection of Pacific Merchant’s traditional fermentation crocks, ranging from $100 for a 5-liter to $206 for a 20-liter with a lid included, as well as Ohio Stoneware crocks, priced at $50 for a 5-gallon size.

Two of Jack Hillard’s stoneware fermentation crocks – a 3-gallon being tested for leaks before use and a retired 15-gallon stoneware crock in the background.

While beautiful, finding a home to store a crock can be challenging. Another key consideration of stoneware crocks is weight. Empty, they’re hefty, but after filling a 5-gallon crock with 25 pounds of shredded cabbage and water, it suddenly takes on a new level of immobility.

If you’re looking to save some green, commercial food-grade plastic buckets are less glamorous but are lightweight and functional. (Avoid using a 5-gallon bucket from a hardware store, or at least consider a food-safe bucket liner.) Some restaurants may be willing to part with leftover food-grade buckets.

I opted for a clear, 22-quart, commercial food-grade bucket from The Restaurant Store. Including the lid, my $25 purchase will provide utility – particularly when canning – and weighs very little.

Tips for Making Sauerkraut

Waiting until after the first frost to buy your cabbage offers a critical advantage: vegetables hit with frost produce sugars that prevent the water content in their leaves from freezing as quickly. This typically makes for sweeter vegetables and, in the case of fermenting, serves as food for bacteria that converts sugars to acid to make sauerkraut. When visiting your local farmstead, ask when the first frost is expected. Find out how quickly after harvest you can get your cabbage fermenting; the shorter the duration, the better.

According to Andy Hirneisen, senior food safety educator at Penn State Extension in Leesport, ideal varieties of cabbage include resistant Golden Acre, Danish Ballhead and Late Flathead.

A 5-gallon crock is ideal for a single batch, ensuring consistent fermentation that might not be possible in smaller containers. Twenty-five pounds of green cabbage paired with 3/4 cups of canning salt will fill a 5-gallon crock perfectly, leaving room for extra brine, if necessary, without risking an overflow. The salt helps to prevent the growth of undesirable bacteria, such as salmonella, listeria and E. coli, while extracting water for safe bacteria to grow. Cabbage will vary in size, but that cabbage-to-salt ratio is scientifically tested and food safe for fermenting sauerkraut.

Clockwise from top left:

  1. Lancaster Farm Fresh Co-Op Red Sauerkraut: funky, tender, with an identical flavor to traditional sauerkraut.
  2. Gap View Homestead Raw Saurkraut (Kinzers, PA): crunchy, delicate, simple.
  3. Oak Lane Kitchen Kraut (Lancaster) – crunchiest, my personal favorite for classic expectations.
  4. Hawthorne Valley (New York) Turmeric: warm and spicy, fitting for the winter months.
  5. Hawthorne Valley (New York) Caraway Sauerkraut: robust and aromatic.

Removing the outer leaves, wash each cabbage, quarter and remove the stalk. Ideally, each slice of the cabbage will produce even cuts roughly the width of a 25-cent coin. A mandoline slicer can save time while producing even cuts. Personally, I find them terrifying and will stick to an 8-inch cook’s knife.

The liquid in fermenting sauerkraut is released by adding canning salt. A potato masher works well for this purpose.

During fermentation, oxygen can lead to the formation of mold. A dinner plate held down with a water-filled resealable bag will keep the cabbage submerged in the acidic brine. When covered with a kitchen towel, carbon dioxide from the fermenting process can escape without pressure buildup.

Sauerkraut will take three to four weeks of fermenting at 70 to 75 degrees Fahrenheit. At 60 to 65 degrees, fermentation may take five or six weeks, and below that temperature, it may not ferment at all. Temperatures above 75 degrees may cause the cabbage to lose the desired crunch and become soft.

Sauerkraut can be stored in the refrigerator for several months in air-tight containers. For canning purposes, use a boiling water bath in pint containers for 20 minutes or quart containers for 25 minutes, with 1/4 inch of headspace. Canning is more likely to provide an optimal texture, but it will kill bacteria, good and bad. When preserving in freezer-designated bags, press out the air, seal, date and lay flat so the sauerkraut freezes faster to preserve texture.

New Year’s Day Pork & Sauerkraut Dinners

Note: Most dinners are served family-style and a majority offer takeout. Prices typically range from $10-$15 for adults. Prices for children vary.

Robert Fulton Fire Company

2271 Robert Fulton Highway, Peach Bottom. 717-548-8995. Rffc89.com

11 a.m.-4 p.m., Takeout, 11 a.m.-2 p.m.

St. Peter’s Evangelical Lutheran Church

10 Delp Rd. Stpeterslutheran.org. 717-569-9211

11 a.m.-3 p.m.

Lancaster Church of the Brethren

1601 Sunset Ave. 717-569-5277. Lancob.org

11 a.m-3 p.m.

Kinzer Fire Company

3521 Lincoln Highway East. 717-442-3329. Kinzerfire.com

10 a.m.-6 p.m.

Zion Lutheran Church

18 Quarry Road, Leola. 717-656-9200. Zionleola.org

11 a.m.-3 p.m.

Lancaster Liederkranz

722 S. Chiques Rd., Manheim. 717-898-8451 (after 4 p.m.). Lancasterliederkranz.com

11:30 a.m.-3:30 p.m.

Fivepointville Fire Company

1087 Dry Tavern Rd., Denver. 717-445-4933. Fivepointvillefire.net/

10:30 a.m-1:30 p.m.

St. Joseph Catholic Church

440 St. Joseph St., Lancaster. Stjosephslanc.com. 717- 397-6921

1-3 p.m.

A Holiday Tradition

It’s midnight on Christmas Eve. My cell phone rings, and I jump from a deep sleep! Over the phone, my uncle shouts, “Christmas Gift!” As I turn toward my husband, whose face is unamused, he turns over in bed and says, “Your family has the weirdest traditions!”

Throughout my childhood, I distinctly remember my grandfather (aka Pa, pronounced Pawww) being the first to say “Christmas gift” as soon as he comes into contact with anyone on Christmas, whether in person or via telephone.

I always thought it was just a family tradition that he started when we were little. Turns out, there’s a real history with the phrase.

According to an article in Garden & Gun (2016), writer Amanda Heckert interviewed Dr. Michael Montgomery, a University of South Carolina professor emeritus of English and linguistics. He suggests that the two-word phrase is mainly a Southern expression that dates back to the Civil War and possibly even before then.

Basically, the meaning behind it declares that the first person to say “Christmas gift” has the right to open the first gift of the day. And, like Heckert, the family tradition continues but with no actual prize, just the bragging rights of having been the first to shout it out.

Even though this will be our family’s twelfth Christmas without Pa, the tradition continues with my uncle, sister, cousins and so forth.

Get ready, Uncle Joe! You’re in for a rude “awakening” come December 25th.

Top 10 To-Dos for December 2019

1 Through December 30
The 2019 Christmas Show: Joy to the World

American Music Theatre

The ringing of church bells in a quaint town square sets the scene for AMT’s newest holiday spectacular. Evoking the revered holiday nostalgia of hometowns all across the U.S., the AMT stage is transformed into a small-town winter carnival brimming with family and friends, scenes filled with entertaining elves, dramatic dancing, sensational singing and grand moments galore.

The AMT singers and orchestra perform favorites such as Away in a Manger, Jingle Bells, Hark, The Herald Angels Sing, Let it Snow, and Carol of the Bells live on stage. Awe-inspiring music and dance, phenomenal voices and light-hearted holiday humor are the ingredients for this season’s all-new extravaganza. 2425 Lincoln Hwy. East. Information: 717-397-7700 or amtshows.com.

2 December 6
The Queen of the Night

Lancaster Public Library

Indulge your senses at this signature benefit in support of the library. The event takes its theme from the best-selling, historical drama of the same name written by Alexander Chee. Guests will be transported to 19th-century Paris in an event like no other! The evening will include themed cuisine, cocktails, entertainment, many fun surprises and an exclusive silent auction to raise critical funds for the library. Registration ends November 29. Cost of event is $80. 125 N. Duke St. 7-11 p.m. Information: 717-394-2651 or lancasterpubliclibrary.org/queen.

3 Through January 5
A Longwood Christmas

Longwood Gardens

Longwood Gardens celebrates the many shapes of the season with a display that is both nostalgic and inventive, as it is inspired by the contours of traditional holiday favorites from poinsettias to pinecones to snowflakes, as well as the unique forms found in the grand Conservatory. The Outdoor Light Display will have half a million lights, and don’t miss the spectacular 15-foot Wildlife Tree, made of more than 200 illuminated birdhouses. 1001 Longwood Rd., Kennett Square. Information: 610-388-1000 or longwoodgardens.org.

4 November 29-December 22
Trees Galore Holiday Feasts

Lancaster Museum of Art

Celebrate the holidays with Trees Galore, a beloved museum tradition. This year’s theme is Holiday Feasts. Highlights include holiday-themed original artwork by Lancaster-area artists available through a silent art auction, mini-trees decorated by local companies and artists available for bidding, and a Holiday Gift Shop featuring handmade and locally sourced items for all of your gift-giving needs. Plus, the museum will be decorated for the Holiday Feasts theme! 135 N. Lime St. Opening reception is November 29, 2-5 p.m., and a Closing Party will be held December 19, 6 p.m. Information: 717-299-9940 or lmapa.org.

5 December 6-7, 13-14, and 20-21
Motown Legends

Prima Theatre

The Temptations. The Jackson 5. The Supremes. Motown shattered barriers and continues to inspire every generation to move to the same beat. Don’t miss this exciting concert celebration of the most beloved songs from Hitsville USA. 941 Wheatland Ave., Suite A. 7:30 p.m. Information: 717-327-5124 or primalancaster.org.

6 December 11-22
Christmas at Clipper Magazine Stadium

Clipper Magazine Stadium

Experience holiday magic inside the ballpark! Each night, guests will take in hundreds of breathtaking decorated trees while strolling around the stadium’s Christmas Tree Lane. Vote for your favorite trees and help area nonprofit organizations receive helpful donations. Other festive activities include pictures with Santa, story time with Mrs. Claus, family-friendly holiday movies inside the suite level, roasting s’mores, a visit with the characters of the animated film Frozen, meeting live reindeer (December 21 only) and making fun crafts (some activities may have a small additional cost). Also, don’t forget to take a spin through the drive-through Christmas Spirit Light Show. 650 N. Prince St. 5-9 p.m. Admission by donation only. Information: 717-509-4487 or lancasterbarnstormers.com.

Photo courtesy of KBE.

7 December 6-7
Holiday Homes on Parade

Various Locations

The Building Industry Association of Lancaster County is once again hosting a holiday home tour. Newly built and remodeled homes, as well as several commercial spaces, will feature the latest trends in design and products. All will be decorated to reflect the holiday season. Presenting companies include Custom Home Group, EGStoltzfus, KBE (Kitchens by Eileen), Berks Homes, Dutch Quality Inc., and TK Building & Design. Penn Stone will also welcome ticket holders. Enjoy lite holiday fare throughout the self-guided tour! Door prizes will be featured in the homes. Proceeds benefit the Salvation Army Coats for Kids program. Tickets are $15 per person and must be purchased in advance via the website. December 6, 5-8 p.m. December 7, 2-8 p.m. Information: holidayhomesonparade.com.

8 December 7
Santa Paws is Coming to Town

Humane League of Lancaster County

Santa Paws will be visiting the Humane League of Lancaster County to take photos with all the good boy and girl fur babies! Professional photos with Santa are $5 each. Regina Gutierrez Photography will be volunteering their time and talents for the event. Your pet’s professional photo will be uploaded and available for download following the event. Raffles, sweet treats and more await your arrival. All pets that are adopted during the festivities will go home with a special gift, too. 2195 Lincoln Hwy East. 1-5 p.m. Information: 610-750-6100, ext. 211, humanepa.org or lhenderson@humanepa.org.

9 December 12
Community Christmas Carol Sing

Moravian Church Square

Join the Lititz Historical Foundation, in conjunction with the Lititz Moravian Archives, for the annual Community Christmas Carol Sing. This free event will take place at Moravian Church Square. The Moravian Trombone Choir will be on hand, and free song sheets will be handed out as you, your friends, neighbors and family sing holiday classics. Afterwards, all are welcome to warm up inside the Fellowship Hall where light refreshments will be served. The Putz will also be available for various showings throughout the evening in the church’s social hall. 7 p.m. Information: facebook.

10 December 7
Winterfest

Mount Joy

Kick off the holiday season by celebrating in downtown Mount Joy. Main Street will be closed, from Market to Barbara streets, and the entire street will be lined with vendors, restaurants and fun things to do! Santa will be downtown to visit, and there will be live music all night on the stage by the borough office. Tree lighting will be at 7 p.m. 4-7 p.m. Information: 717-653-4227 or mainstreetmountjoy.com.

An Homage to Father Christmas and Mother Nature

The family room, which paid homage to Mother Nature for the 2018 holiday season, is situated in the original farmhouse.

Tracy and Kurt Fichthorn’s home in Reinholds exudes history, tradition and a love for the holidays.

Twenty-nine years ago, Anita Yoder launched Heritage Design Interiors (HDI), which specializes in the accessories aspect of home décor. “Everything and anything for the home, with the exception of furniture,” Anita says.

Christmas decorating entered the picture when the company took over a historic property in New Holland in 2002. “It dates to the 1830s,” she explains of the former inn that features six fireplaces. Anita and her staff, including Pam Leisey, who has been with her almost from the beginning, couldn’t help but envision the former inn decked out for the holidays. “We started out small, just decorating a couple of the fireplace mantels,” Anita recalls.

The timing could not have been more perfect. Holiday decorating was becoming a niche all its own. It has helped to transform home-design studios such as HDI, garden centers, landscaping companies and home stores into decorating sources at a time of the year when business would typically slow down. Think about it … who does a major home project in November or December?

The original portion of the farmhouse dates to 1841. The 130-acre farm was owned by Kurt’s great-uncle Dan Fichthorn from 1938-1971. After his death, it was sold to a farmer and a developer. When Kurt and Tracy decided to relocate from the Philadelphia area, they began searching for a home in the Reinholds area, only to discover the farmhouse was for sale. Working with Cox Evans Architects and Dwight Graybill of Cocalico Builders, the house expanded to 5,000 square feet. After it was finished, Tracy turned to Heritage Design Interiors for help with window treatments and decorating the house for the holidays.

How much of an impact does holiday decorating have on the economy? A lot! The National Retail Federation predicts that Americans will spend $6 billion on holiday decorations this year, with purchases ranging from a simple ornament to an outdoor extravaganza of lighting that would rival Longwood Gardens. We won’t even discuss the sale frenzy that transpires on December 26! The $6 billion outpaces last year’s record-setting spending by 8.1%. As for trees, the predicted expenditure comes in at $3.4 billion ($2.6 billion on faux and $800 million on the real varieties).

When Tracy saw the critter-filled tree and winter-themed mantel swag at last year’s open house at Heritage Design Interiors, she knew they would fit perfectly into the décor of the family room. No doubt they will make an encore appearance this year, as Heritage Design Interior’s Anita Yoder reports that Mother Nature will again inspire holiday decorating. Tracy found the fox head carving at Frey’s Greenhouse and added a boxwood wreath for a holiday touch.

Those numbers are reflected in the fact that QVC begins rolling out holiday decorations in July. Christmas starts creeping into department stores over Labor Day weekend, when holiday shops are unveiled. Shops devoted solely to Christmas décor thrive year-round in destinations such as Saint Michaels, Maryland, and Manteo, North Carolina. Holiday open houses dominate the calendar as soon as Halloween ends (if not before).

Holiday home tours have become successful fundraisers for nonprofit organizations. The holiday décor at historic sites and public gardens such as Winterthur, Williamsburg, Biltmore and Longwood attracts millions of visitors. And, have you noticed that Hallmark’s Countdown to Christmas movies, which kicked off in mid-October, have placed a greater emphasis on holiday décor? One of last year’s movies had Elvis Presley’s Graceland as the backdrop.

Realizing that their clients are gaga over holiday décor, Heritage Design Interiors began decorating their building to the hilt each Christmas. “We do five trees, five mantels and the open staircase,” notes Anita. An open house, which welcomes visitors during the first two weeks of November, showcases the finds Anita has discovered at the trade and gift shows she frequents. For HDI, Christmas has become almost a year-round endeavor, as the shows get underway in January and inventory begins arriving in late summer.

Tracy has been a client for years. “I’d stop in and browse,” she recalls. Then, when she needed help decorating the 19th-century family homestead she and Kurt restored and expanded a dozen years ago – it earned a C. Emlen Urban award from the Historic Preservation Trust in 2008 – she began working closely with Pam.

Tracy, who loves to decorate for Christmas, became a regular at the HDI’s holiday open houses. “I’d buy decorations for our home and our place in Stone Harbor,” she explains. Last year she spied a tree (and complementary mantel swag) that was filled with critters. “The tones, colors and theme were perfect for our family room,” Tracy explains. “When she said she wanted the tree, I thought she meant some of the ornaments on it,” Pam recalls. “Then, she clarified it and said, ‘No, I want the tree and everything on it!’” Anita and Pam believe that was a first!

The living room is located in the addition that echoes the time period of the house. Melding old and new was accomplished through using reclaimed wood for the floors and adding the fireplace surround that was sourced locally. The painting over the fireplace captures the farm in the early ’50s and was a gift from Emerson Fichthorn to Dan Fichthorn, who owned the property at the time. The draperies reflect the fact that a horse-racing track was once part of the acreage.

The critters represent an ode to the Mother Nature trend that began about three or four years ago with songbirds and has evolved to include last year’s favorites: owls, red foxes and other woodland creatures. Anita says they will be in vogue again this year, with white foxes and tropical birds joining the menagerie. The natural world is also celebrated by the seashore theme that has also been popular over the last several years, with sea creatures, shells and lighthouses taking the shape of shimmering ornaments. Trees with floral accents are also on the rise.

The Father Christmas aspect of decorating hearkens to ornaments and keepsakes that have been passed down through generations or are reproductions of the German-made decorations that Frank Woolworth took a chance on and offered for sale at his landmark store on North Queen Street beginning in 1880. (Much to his surprise, the ornaments sold out in a matter of hours.) Anita shares that ornaments circa 2019 will be available in a rainbow of colors, including turquoise and pink for vintage fans.

For modernists, metallics (especially brass and gold tones) and the color blue embellished with bling are two newer trends for the 2019 holiday season.

Heritage Design Interiors is also benefiting from a unique service they offer – clients who turn their homes over to Anita and her staff in the morning, leave for work, and return in the evening to find a winter wonderland has replaced the fall décor. “Our list of clients [for such services] keeps growing,” Anita confirms. As you can imagine, the window of opportunity for such services is short and fast-paced. “We get started right around Thanksgiving and work every day for the next couple of weeks,” Pam says.

Father Christmas is the theme in the living room. The red-and-white-themed tree held ornaments that relate to the Fichthorns’ interests – horses, beer-making, farm animals, dogs and cats – and ornaments their 16-year-old son, Kole, has made over the years. Tracy worked with Pam Leisey of Heritage Design Interiors to further embellish the tree with red and white amaryllis blooms and branches of glistening berries. Amaryllis blossoms, greens and pinecones topped the mantel in the room. The floral accents are part of a growing trend. Martha Stewart, HGTV and Better Homes & Gardens Magazine all predict that trees will be blooming with flowers this year.

For long-time clients, the goal is to add new elements each year, so as to create subtle changes. “We like to tweak everything from year to year,” she explains. Still other clients might add a new room to the mix, which calls for a fresh start. It’s also become common for clients to have multiple trees in their homes. “We like to work with client’s collections, too. We hear so many great stories through them,” adds Anita. “Decorating for Christmas really helps us to get to know our clients.”

Just as they help clients decorate, they help them remove the decorations. “We’re finding that people are keeping their decorations up longer,” says Pam. “It works really well for those who have winter wonderland themes or, like Tracy, went with a critter theme.” Indeed, Tracy reports the critters decorated the family room well into February.

Because she would be having a lot of guests visiting over the holidays, Tracy decided to take decorating up a notch and asked Pam to assist her. “It was so nice to have help,” she says.

The tree in the formal living room hearkened to Father Christmas, as it was decorated in the traditional red and green colors. It was filled with keepsakes and ornaments that relay family interests – horses, beer-making, football, farm animals, cats and dogs – as well as some made by their son, Kole, over the years.

The holiday décor in the farmhouse kitchen focused on the old-fashioned tradition of pomanders – citrus fruit embellished with aromatic cloves. Pomanders were used to decorate the chandelier and the arrangement of greens and pinecones.

It was Tracy’s idea to further embellish the tree with large “blossoms” of red and white amaryllis. “I saw a tree decorated that way by designer Carolyn Weaver and never forgot it,” she explains. Pam further embellished it with colorful, ice-covered picks, pinecones, glitzy acorns and burlap ribbon. HDI’s custom floral arrangements topped tables, while more amaryllis blooms filled the mantel.

A counter in the kitchen was topped with things that evoke childhood memories for Tracy.

The dining room is always a vision of Lenox – pieces from the holiday china pattern belonged to Tracy’s grandmother, plus Tracy has added to the collection. The tree is hung with Lenox ornaments that a high school friend sends her every year. “She’s like a sister to me,” Tracy remarks. Figurines from Lenox create a crèche that sits atop the buffet.

In the kitchen, the old-fashioned custom of embellishing fruit with fragrant cloves – pomanders – is reflected in the chandelier and floral arrangements. Other finds and sentimental pieces decorate the room.

The newest decorations – the critter-filled tree and mantel swag – made the family room warm and cozy throughout the winter.

The dining room takes on a Lenox theme at holiday time. Much of the china belonged to Tracy’s grandmother, and Tracy has added to it over the years. The tree is filled with ornaments that a high school friend has sent to Tracy each Christmas. An elegant centerpiece echoes the room’s holiday color scheme.

“It’s a fun house to decorate,” Pam says. “I always enjoy coming here.” It appears she will be making a return visit after the holidays to do more than take down the decorations. “I think I want to re-do the living room,” Tracy informed her. “I heard that!” Kurt said as he exited the house to take their dog for a walk.

Heritage Design Interiors, 1064 E. Main St., New Holland. Call 717-354-2233 or visit heritagedesigninteriors.com for more information.

Holiday Baking with Infused Olive Oils

‘Tis the season to be merry, and for many that means indulging in holiday treats. Cakes and cookies, sweetbreads and pies, the annual marathon of taste-tempting baked goods has begun! However, before you start baking for the season, you may want to add a surprising and healthy ingredient to your shopping list: infused olive oils.

To say I have “a” sweet tooth ignores the other 31 teeth that match the same description. Of course, the holidays are challenging for those of us who love good food – especially baked goods and desserts. We do our best to monitor our caloric intake (even loosening up our “budgets” a bit), but when you’re bouncing around at events and meals between Thanksgiving and New Year’s, any semblance of self-control seems to disappear. Have you noticed you can’t even walk into an office and not be enticed to sample the candy, cookies and other goodies that are free for the taking?

The fact that I haven’t addressed desserts in the column hasn’t gone unnoticed by friends and fellow foodies. Granted, other than a few Southern specialties, like the King Cake and beignets, and Holy Trinity’s famous fasnachts, baked goods have been missing in action from the column. So, with Christmas around the corner, I’m addressing the white elephant in the room.

Homemade cranberry-almond biscotti paired with Lancaster County Coffee Roaster’s Lancaster Signature Blend. Cranberry-walnut olive oil was chosen over vegetable oil, adding a warm, seasonally rich flavor while reducing saturated fat.

Throughout 2019, one of my favorite cooking ingredients has been infused olive oils. Available in a wide range of flavors, they are brilliant choices for glazes on vegetables and meat tossed on the grill. Surprisingly, they’re also perfect for baking purposes. Now, if you’re thinking “basil-and-herb sugar cookies,” that’s not what I have in mind. Rather, imagine pairings of citrus and chocolate and nuts and fruit.

As you will discover, there’s a realm of sweet and tangy infused olive oils that will add dimension to your baking. After all, olives are considered a fruit – stone fruit to be more precise – which sounds better-suited for baking sweets. Think dough, cakes, truffles, strudels and biscotti.

Resources on baking with infused olive oils are somewhat sparse, though new ideas are popping up all the time. For example, I sampled blood-orange brownies at The Olive Basin (Kitchen Kettle Village) this summer and was hooked. I discovered that baking brownies with blood-orange infused olive oil adds a subtle, citrusy tang, which pairs perfectly with the bittersweet cocoa. The brownies were moist, chewy and wonderfully complex. Requiring only a glass of milk or bowl of vanilla ice cream, sadly absent at the time, it was a match made in heaven. The thoughtful twist on a classic dessert recipe motivated me to further explore the possibilities that are out there.

Cranberry-Walnut Extra Virgin Olive Oil (EVOO) from Olio Olive Oil & Balsamics in Lititz. Other sources for olive oil products include Seasons Olive Oil and Vinegar Taproom in Lancaster, S. Clyde Weaver in East Petersburg and The Olive Basin at Kitchen Kettle Village in Intercourse.

Infused Olive Oils

Generally speaking, infused olive oils are made by adding concentrated oil extracts, such as citrus oil, to olive oil. In substituting infused olive oil for extracts in baking, extracts use alcohol to capture flavors, which is less potent than oil; a few drops per teaspoon of extract is probably adequate.

Lemon cake made with lemon-infused olive oil, which replaced butter and lemon zest in the bake. It’s finished with powdered sugar and fresh lemon zest. The spongy texture is full of moisture yet crumbles nicely with each bite.

Olive oils flavored with lemon, Persian lime, blood orange, walnut, hazelnut and pistachio are my starting suggestions for baking. While the nature of infused olive oils is still savory, they’re also more dynamic, ranging from sweet to tangy with the inclusion of oils from citruses and nuts. They can also be blended for combined flavor characteristics. Tasting a drop of infused olive oil side by side with canola, the flavor difference is striking and bright. It’s almost a surprise they’re not the first choice in baking due to their fruity taste and robust flavor.

Varieties

In baking recipes where you simply want to replace cooking oil with unflavored olive oil, start with extra virgin olive oil. It is a choice and unrefined oil that’s made by cold pressing the olive fruit without heating it to a degree that will adversely affect flavor.

Extra virgin olive oil that is unfiltered has a cloudy, green appearance with identical textures and tastes, reminiscent of freshly cut grass. That can be great for cooking but less ideal for baking. Pure olive oil is another variety to avoid when baking. It’s processed or refined to aid lower-quality oil and is best suited for frying.

Blood orange-infused olive oil, local eggs and Wilbur’s Dutch Processed Cocoa Powder took these brownies to another level of tastiness. Bright orange notes paired with the bittersweet chocolate makes for a fresh spin on a timeless classic.

When altering recipes, swap equal parts of olive oil for vegetable oil. Butter contains water, so when substituting olive oil for melted butter, keep in mind that oil is higher in (healthier) fat, so less is required. Substitute 3/4 oil to one-part butter. When creaming butter with sugar, oil cannot be substituted.

When not in use, store sealed olive oil containers in a cool, dark cupboard to prevent oxidization.

Health Benefits

While my initial use of olive oils for baking wasn’t for health reasons, we should discuss nutritional benefits. I was drawn to infused olive oils because, when used well, they make food taste better, but the health benefits carry ample merit on their own. Olive oils contain antioxidants and monounsaturated fats, which are liquid at room temperature, healthier than saturated fats and promote healthy cholesterol. Those among us watching our triglyceride levels will find benefits substituting olive oil for butter and unhealthier cooking oils in recipes.

Truffles made with extra virgin olive oil, Ghirardelli 60% dark chocolate, unsalted butter and dusted with Wilbur’s Dutch Processed Cocoa Powder.

While high in calories, the monounsaturated fats in olive oil can help to lower total levels of cholesterol and bad LDL cholesterol. While it means that food prepared with olive oil will be healthier, it’s not a free pass into caloric bliss. Getting a head start during the holidays will give way to better New Year’s resolutions of improved health and matters involving the bathroom scale.

Recipes

For recipe inspiration, I turned to several sources.

From Alice Medrich’s cookbook, Sinfully Easy Delicious Desserts, I prepared chocolate truffles with extra virgin olive oil and orange zest. Alicemedrich.com/recipe/chocolate-truffles-with-extra-virgin-olive-oil/

From The Olive Basin, blood-orange olive oil brownies. www.kitchenkettle.com/recipe/blood-orange-olive-oil-brownies.asp

From All Recipes, almond and cranberry biscotti with a cranberry-walnut oil. Allrecipes.com/recipe/17241/biscotti/

From Better Homes & Gardens, lemon olive oil cake. Bhg.com/recipe/lemon-olive-oil-cake/

Christmas in Strasburg


As if restaurateurs don’t have enough on their plates, December brings the challenge of transforming their establishments into must-see holiday destinations. In Strasburg, the holiday décor at the Fireside Tavern has been captivating visitors for the past 10 years.

When David Haines and Steve and Stephanie Kirkessner took over the restaurant and ballroom at the former Historic Strasburg Inn in 2008, they knew the holiday season would be an important element of the business. After all, in Lancaster County, Christmas and Strasburg go hand-in-hand. For example, Sight & Sound Theatre is staging its popular Miracle of Christmas show (through December 28). The Strasburg Rail Road will be hosting its various holiday-themed, family-friendly train events (through December 23). Christmas events are being held at the Railroad Museum of Pennsylvania on December 7 and 14. The holiday-themed model-train layout at the Choo Choo Barn has been a tradition since the early ‘60s, while the National Toy Train Museum is a magnet for toy-train enthusiasts at this time of the year.

The tree in the Strasburg Room sparkles with ribbon, ornaments, glittery florals and glistening snowflakes.

On December 7, the Strasburg Heritage Society will host its annual Holiday Home Tour. The Lancaster County Art Association will be hosting the exhibit, Holiday Greens & Merry Miniatures, as well as a sale of select works from the Permanent Collection (through December 22). The American Music Theatre, which is nearby, is presenting its holiday show, Joy to the World (through December 30).

Strasburg’s small shops and the nearby outlet centers attract droves of holiday shoppers. There’s also a new attraction: Strasburg Scooters, which is hosting holiday-themed tours.
“People come to the Fireside before and after the shows and events that bring them to Strasburg,” Stephanie explains. “For a lot of them, it’s become a tradition. We are blessed to be located in the middle of all the attractions that bring visitors to Strasburg and feel it’s important to provide them with an ‘experience’ at the Fireside.”

The Middle Dining Room was a vision of silver and white, while the Swamp Room’s color scheme was more traditional, as it was based on red and white.

In addition to welcoming visitors from near and far, the Fireside takes pride in being regarded as a “neighborhood place.” It’s become a favorite with the 55+ community that is located virtually next door. A walkway that leads from Main Street makes the Fireside a very walkable destination for the town’s residents. It’s become a favorite venue for reunions of alumni from Lampeter-Strasburg, Pequea Valley and Solanco high schools.

If the owners’ names ring a bell, you probably recognize them as the former owners of D&S Brasserie. “We owned it for 18 years,” Stephanie notes. The decision to sell was prompted by the Kirkessners wanting to devote more time to family and Haines exploring new ventures. “We went our separate ways,” she says. “We had no real plans to get back into it, but five years later, when the Historic Strasburg became available, we were ready to regroup.”

In the Strasburg Room, clusters of curly willow create focal points on the ceiling. The curly willow is accented with white twinkle lights and hanging ornaments that range in color from acid green to burnished metallics. The tree and mantel décor complement the room’s color scheme, wood accents and brick fireplace.

Before they could even think about Christmas, they had to refurbish the restaurant and ballroom. “We worked with interior designer Ralph Myers. A lot of cosmetic work went into it,” she says of the new flooring, color schemes, window coverings, furnishings and art that define the traditional ambiance of the property and provide each space with its own unique look and feel.

They also discovered a stash of holiday decorations in one of the storage areas. “We pulled it all out and spread the decorations across tables set up in the ballroom,” Stephanie recalls. Then, they had a pro come in and survey their finds. The pro was Kathy Frey, the owner of the home and fashion boutique, Festoon, in downtown Lancaster, which always looks gorgeous at holiday time. “She’s a dear friend and an inspiration,” Stephanie explains.

Kathy came in and designated which items should stay and which should go.
From there, Stephanie took over. As is often the case, finding holiday décor became a year-round pursuit. She began working with local wholesale companies such as AT Imports, LTD and Primitives by Kathy to add to the collection. She constantly scours Pinterest for ideas. If something catches Stephanie’s eye during her travels, she buys it.
With two dining rooms, a bar and a ballroom to decorate, the challenge is to keep Fireside looking fresh from year to year. “The goal is to wow our guests,”
she notes.

On the menu (left to right): Swordfish steak and vegetable sauté, steamed mussels with peppers, onions and garlic bread, and apricot salmon with jasmine rice and steamed vegetables.

Stephanie attributes the success of providing that wow factor to her band of eight to 10 elves, who help to decorate the property in one swoop. Once the restaurant closes and the last guests leave a function in the ballroom on the Saturday before Thanksgiving, Stephanie and her team of employees unpack the holiday decorations and work through the night to transform the Fireside into a holiday wonderland.

“Kathy Frey is also here from start to finish that night, working her magic, providing what I call ‘the Festoon touch’ – that extra fluff – and tweaking the decorating our staff has done,” Stephanie explains. “She leads and teaches us as we go. She truly is the mastermind behind all of it. I am so humbled and honored to have her share in our decorating efforts.”

A hutch in the Strasburg Room is hung with a shimmering swag.

Eight trees decorate the Fireside, two of which stand in the ballroom that was recently rebranded as The Willows at Historic Strasburg. Fireplaces are decked, lights are strung, wreaths are hung and decorative elements are placed atop tables and other furnishings.
“We receive so many compliments,” Stephanie says of the appreciative words that make the team’s efforts worth losing a night of sleep. The reservations line then starts ringing with requests to sit by a tree, a fireplace or in the festively decorated bar.

Last year, “Kathy’s Table” – which is designed by Festoon’s Kathy Frey – entailed a frosty woodland theme.

As with most restaurants, the Fireside takes it up a notch over the holidays. “We’re a restaurant with a ballroom, so in addition to our regular lunch and dinner service, we’re hosting Christmas parties, weddings and other holiday events,” Stephanie explains, describing the Fireside in December as “well-orchestrated chaos.”

Actually, that starts in November, when the restaurant gears up to host its annual Thanksgiving Day Buffet, which is always a sell-out. When the menu for the buffet is posted in August, the reservations begin to roll in. “A lot of people will make a reservation for the following year on their way out,” she says of the Turkey Day extravaganza.

The flavors of the season: Pomegranate Poinsettia Sangria, Cranberry Bulleit and Candy Cane Martini.

Stephanie says Fireside’s secret to successfully handling the holiday rush is the fact that everyone has a role to play and executes it perfectly. “Dave’s forte is overseeing the ballroom’s kitchen,” she explains. He works closely with Amanda Kramer, the ballroom’s event coordinator. The restaurant’s kitchen staff is led by chef David Roark Eshleman, whose resumé includes D&S Brasserie. She describes Lisa Host as a bartender “with a following.”

While the Fireside is a holiday destination, its owners recognize that the holidays are also about family. In order to give their 60 employees a well-deserved break, the restaurant closes after lunch on Christmas Eve and reopens December 26. It is open for lunch and dinner on New Year’s Eve but is closed on New Year’s Day. Then, it’s time to take all the decorations down and prepare for the year to come.

Fireside Tavern and The Willows at Historic Strasburg, 1500 Historic Dr., Strasburg. Reservations are suggested for holiday dining. Call 717-687-7979 or visit dsfireside.com.  

December 7 | Strasburg Holiday Home Tour

Sponsored by the Strasburg Heritage Society, this annual tour – celebrating its 10th year – will feature decorated homes in charming, historic Strasburg and surrounding areas. Purchase advance tickets for $20 (through December 5) at Main Street Antiques, Speckled Hen or Strasburg Heisler Library. Day-of-tour tickets ($25) can be purchased at First Presbyterian Church, where you will also find a public holiday market (9:30 a.m.-3 p.m.), food and beverages, and a silent auction, the winner of which will receive a colonial hearth-cooked dinner for six in a historic home. New this year, you can pre-order tickets online through the Society’s website (by December 5) and pick them up the day of the event. 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Information: 717-687-3534, strasburgheritagesociety.org, strasburgholidaytour@gmail.com or Facebook.

Celebrating 30 Years of The Best

This year Lancaster County Magazine is marking a milestone – the 30th edition of the Best of Lancaster Readers’ Survey. To mark the occasion, the magazine hosted a party attended by winners, readers and friends. It was held at Columbia Crossing River Trails Center. We’d like to thank our food/beverage and entertainment partners for helping to make the party a success. They include: Floral Designs of Mount Joy, Special Occasions & Queen Street Linens, Nick Gould Photography, The Kracker Beez band, Isaac’s Restaurants, TFB Hospitality (Per Diem and Annie Bailey’s Irish Public House), Vigis Parties LLC, Fox Meadows Creamery, Hammond’s Pretzel Bakery, Oregon Dairy (bakery), Lancaster Cupcake, Humankind Water/Organic Bottled Beverages, Nissley Vineyards and St. Boniface Craft Brewing Company. Donations and the proceeds from a silent auction benefited KPETS.